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Why do African women change after marriage? Why can't they keep up the sexiness, which attracted us to them in the first place. I have a lot of friends that are married and its constantly one complaint to the other. The whole thing is making me not want to get married. My guy and i were yarning the other day about his married life. he loves his wife to bits but she is changing as the years go by and after you women will be the first to complain that your husband is cheating. hmpf. He complained, (not complain, cos men dont complain,only women do. haha). He just stated the fact that the number of times and the styles of sex has changed since marriage and even worse after they had children. (why do men say, we had children? dude,you were not the one with your legs wide open tearing your hair out.)

Well, after she gave birth to his two big headed sons, sex was worse. Before marriage, he claims that they both loved the doggie style but now he can't even define it. That led to my topic today of the Doggie style.

Ladies, please keep up. We, men are the only ones putting effort in it.

Doing it the doggie style does not make you a dog, but brings out the animal in you. after all, living things as i was taught is divided into animals and plants, so if you feel you might be a plant, please refrain from this position.

Step by Step for both the man and woman of different ways you can get into it.
Quoting a sex advice tutor:

1- Tight-legged

Getting into the typical doggie stance, have your girl keep her legs closed and open yours around them. As well, get her to arch her back and lean on her hands rather than lean down and rest on her elbows on the bed (or whatever surface you happen to be on). To help her maintain that stance, wrap your hand around her hair and give it an occasional tug while you're having sex.

In addition to hair-pulling, you can rub her spine lightly and even hug her waist while you penetrate her.

2- Upright torsos

Get into your regular doggie stance, but lift your torso along with your girl's so that you're upright while you penetrate. Doing this in a location where she's facing the wall or, say, the bedpost, will allow her to place her hands there to maintain balance while you're going in and out.

Use your free hands to caress her breasts and butt, rub her shoulders and get a better grip for penetration. This position also allow you room to easily kiss her mouth and neck.

3- Stand down, boy

While she bends over on the edge of the bed, her feet and shins hanging off it, you stand against it and make your way in. Of course, if the bed is too high or you have a significant height difference, you will have to make some adjustments.

She can raise or lower her body to accommodate you, and you can stand straight or bend your knees.

4- Stand down, girl

If she's much shorter than you, you may not want to attempt this position. Otherwise, have her face the other way and bend down so that her butt is sticking out toward you. Her torso should be parallel to the ground.

While you kneel on the edge of the bed, hold on to her hips and make your way in. Make sure to go slowly, as she needs to maintain her balance. Better yet, let her control the tempo.

5- Climb to the top

While she's in position, stand up and place your body right above her butt. Then, bend down so that you can place your penis inside her.

Ensure that you're balanced; otherwise you may end up falling on top of her. Place your hands on her back without pressing down, or use the help of a wall or bedpost to maintain balance.

Be careful not to thrust too quickly initially; ensure that she enjoys the sensation first.


I mean, i dont know how else to tell you how to do the style except to come and place your leg and hand where it should be. So feel free to invite me to do that. i shall not object.

Spank me while we're doing it.

How many ladies enjoy being spanked during sex? and how many men enjoy spanking women during sex?

Ill answer my question. I do enjoy being spanked during sex as long as its not over the line. Don't use style to brush me and then call it spanking.

Some women do not enjoy being spanking and its nothing bad and enjoying it is a plus especially if your man enjoys spanking you during sex. its the little of animal instinct we humans have and its raw and nice to experience it during sex.

Men, please do not just start off spanking a woman like you are beating a mad person in the market. You have to know how and how hard to do it. If not, please don't or you might get arrested for harassment.

Men, also please do not ask "can i spank you harder?" or " i hope im not hurting you". it does spoil the mood, so just go for it and judge from her expressions. and No, i do not mean the hair. If she yells, "O ri o kpe, do you want to kill me?" then i am guessing you are spanking a bit too hard.

Another question that comes to men at this point is, how do i know if she likes getting spanked without having to ask her during sex. I mean, come on, it spoils the mood when the man stops in the mid of the heat and says in an unflattery voice, so do you mind if i spank you? haha. especially when he asks. For me, i dont want my man to ask me any question, i want him to go by his instinct and hopefully, im up for it.

So how should men know? They don't have magic powers and hopefully you are not dating a babalawo. So, there are clues that might aid a man to know what his lady likes (being spanked or not). You can look for your signs but what we have come up with is that women that dig their nails into your skin during sex, or scream harder, faster. haha. these women usually wouldn't mind being spanked. Women that show animalistic or wild tendencies in bed, like talking dirty wouldn't mind being spanked. So go ahead, look for signs.

Women, it also helps to give your man clues. You know how you are when you want him to buy you a new nice bracelet, you leave clues all over the house. You buy pictures of ladies wearing that bracelet and post it all over your house. You pray to God for the bracelet very loudly so your man hears. You comment every 20mins about one or two friends have the bracelet or how that bracelet would be the best gift this christmas. You say how you would do annnnnyyyyything for tha bracelet (including going down on him when its not his birthday). So, its not so hard to leave a clue about if you like being spanked or not. You could use my way by casually mentioning "Why do women complain about being spanked? i dont think i would mind being spanked" hopefully, your man isnt stupid and should get the message.

Austin should be on the next post. Any questions on spanking, please add as a comment and i will do my best to answer. Hope you got educated. kisses.