Spank me while we're doing it.

How many ladies enjoy being spanked during sex? and how many men enjoy spanking women during sex?

Ill answer my question. I do enjoy being spanked during sex as long as its not over the line. Don't use style to brush me and then call it spanking.

Some women do not enjoy being spanking and its nothing bad and enjoying it is a plus especially if your man enjoys spanking you during sex. its the little of animal instinct we humans have and its raw and nice to experience it during sex.

Men, please do not just start off spanking a woman like you are beating a mad person in the market. You have to know how and how hard to do it. If not, please don't or you might get arrested for harassment.

Men, also please do not ask "can i spank you harder?" or " i hope im not hurting you". it does spoil the mood, so just go for it and judge from her expressions. and No, i do not mean the hair. If she yells, "O ri o kpe, do you want to kill me?" then i am guessing you are spanking a bit too hard.

Another question that comes to men at this point is, how do i know if she likes getting spanked without having to ask her during sex. I mean, come on, it spoils the mood when the man stops in the mid of the heat and says in an unflattery voice, so do you mind if i spank you? haha. especially when he asks. For me, i dont want my man to ask me any question, i want him to go by his instinct and hopefully, im up for it.

So how should men know? They don't have magic powers and hopefully you are not dating a babalawo. So, there are clues that might aid a man to know what his lady likes (being spanked or not). You can look for your signs but what we have come up with is that women that dig their nails into your skin during sex, or scream harder, faster. haha. these women usually wouldn't mind being spanked. Women that show animalistic or wild tendencies in bed, like talking dirty wouldn't mind being spanked. So go ahead, look for signs.

Women, it also helps to give your man clues. You know how you are when you want him to buy you a new nice bracelet, you leave clues all over the house. You buy pictures of ladies wearing that bracelet and post it all over your house. You pray to God for the bracelet very loudly so your man hears. You comment every 20mins about one or two friends have the bracelet or how that bracelet would be the best gift this christmas. You say how you would do annnnnyyyyything for tha bracelet (including going down on him when its not his birthday). So, its not so hard to leave a clue about if you like being spanked or not. You could use my way by casually mentioning "Why do women complain about being spanked? i dont think i would mind being spanked" hopefully, your man isnt stupid and should get the message.

Austin should be on the next post. Any questions on spanking, please add as a comment and i will do my best to answer. Hope you got educated. kisses.